New Year = New Intent

What do we want this year to include?

How do we want this year to unfold?

Do we wait for things to come our way…NO!

What are we willing to take responsibility for?

How can we achieve what is important and most likely under our control?

Do we demand what we want…NO!

What isn’t important and not under our control that we can willingly let go of?

How can we be ok in the midst of this uncertainty around us?

Do we assert what’s important to us and allow others to as well…YES! Well…sometimes :)

Being passive and aggressive are not going to get us the healthy outcomes we want.

By asserting what we need and want and allowing others to do the same, we can get to a place of agreement…even if we agree to disagree. Both parties have been heard, both have attempted to understand but not necessarily to fully agree or concede. Both need to decide their intent, the options and action to achieve the closest outcome to “I’m ok and You’re ok!” Sometimes this comes with great sacrifice.

In 2020 we have demonstrated a coming together like no other year. To quote the Sunday Australian today,

”It is not uncommon for Australians to be asked to put their differences aside, and pull together…for the commonwealth, and the common good…The Weekend Australian today bestows it’s highest honour: the Victorian people, and their allies, the nation’s contact tracers, are our Australians of the Year. Why? Because each was handed a grim responsibility. And to their daunting tasks they rose.” Go us!!

If LOVE = Intent + Action then…

What are we prepared to do, to feel good about ourselves and good about our relationships?

If you’re stuck?

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