Thank you for your referrals
We are in the business of helping people to deal with the stuff of life.
We listen without judgement, we support while gently challenging and we encourage without persuasion to enable our clients to choose whatever it takes to live life better. Our aim is to help bring about lasting positive change.
We use the framework of Go NUTS. Rather than going crazy (not fun)…come and Go NUTs with us (possibly fun but definitely better than going crazy). One flawed human being to another, strength to strength, as none of us is perfect but we do have the intention, the knowledge and the skills to assist.
Notice:
When a client feels stuck and that life is somewhat out of control, they need help to focus and they need time to notice and to absorb what has happened. This involves addressing what they think, feel (including our bodies) and do as a result of their situation.
Understand:
Next they need to understand what has happened and to gain clarity by making sense of it. Most people start to feel better after talking about their situation. This is certainly the beginning of their healing and their ability to face it is a precursor for change.
Take Responsibility:
Life is full of uncertainty. Much of what happens to us is out of our control and sometimes the only thing we can change is our attitude. Which means that we are usually part of the answer and therefore we need to recognise our part of the solution.
Start:
Something shifts and change happens. It’s helpful to remember that change is possible, it can be painful but it is worth it. No matter how big or small the change may be, it is incredible to witness our clients become empowered to live life well and feel better.
The greatest complement we can receive is the referrals that our clients make because their experience of counselling was helpful. Thank you!
We also appreciate the trusting referrals of friends, family & colleagues that know us. Thank you!
This is a special note to all our referees to please be aware that:
You probably don’t know the full story…
The change you want may not be what the client needs, wants or is ready for…
Remember that there is no perfect solution or way to live life and that they may be doing the best they can…
Trust the process and let go of any of your personal expectations or ultimatums…
Be interested but don’t interrogate by letting them know that you care and that you are there for them too…
Ask them how Counselling has helped, if they have noticed any change and what else they might need…
And remember that we all have issues and some of us might need support too?
If you’re stuck?
Let’s talk!